Sitting In The Office:
In the office, always sit with the wall behind you if you seek co-operation and support of colleagues. Sitting with your back to people or a door can signify ‘backstabbing’, betrayal and lack of support. It is always the best that if a male and a female colleague sit opposite facing one-another. This is always seemed a balance in the “yin” and “yang” energy. Less conflict will occur often.
It is not advised to sit facing opposite with a female colleague who is 6 years older or younger than you. Conflicts and arguments will occur frequently.
Love in an Office:
It is always not advised to fall in love with someone who is working or sitting in the same office. Chances of development to deeper relationships are rare. This is due to the fire element in feng shui in an office. However, unless the male colleague is sitting right in front of the female colleague where the female colleague is sitting at the back facing the wall. If you like a male/female colleague who is sitting right in front of you (opposite face-to-face), a chance of success is rare.
Feng Shui For Romance
This is specially Tips & Hints For those who are busy searching for a life-partner.
Never place your own single photo in your bedroom. Most singles likes to do it. It is always advise to remove it as soon as possible if you are at the age of marriage. This seriously causes “sha” qi in your romance life. You stay and sleep in your bedroom every night and the “sha” qi to your romance became an object. This causes a loneliness and tiredness in your romance. You always feel either unsafe or afraid of getting to start a relationship.
Never hang your own photo above your bed on the wall. You will never have the good feeling over any opposite sex. Hence, you will never have a good relationship. If you like to place a photo, you can choose to place a group photo, family photo or a photo taken with friends or siblings. You will soon have a chance to change it to a photo taken with your lover or husband.
Never put on a red colour bed sheet. (refer to those only red colours without any floral designs or pictures) This usually works well with couples and creates more romance between the two of them. However, this reduces your chances for an opposite sex to fall in love with you. Or worst, they dislike you.
For those who are very eager to find a life-partner, it is always advised not to place any ornaments that is odd in number (eg.1) It would be encourage to place them in a pair.
Never ever place fish tank in a bedroom. It is not advise to do that.
Never sleep in front of a mirror. It reflects your image. This will lead to an unsuccessful relationship where your partner may change his/her heart easily.
Never place any sharp objects on the writing table or anywhere in your bedroom when sleeping. It is advised to keep them in your drawer. When you are sleeping, your “yang” qi is lower; the sharp objects will damage or lower your “Yang” qi the next day. Hence you will always look restless even you have an 8 hours sleep. You properly do not have the mood or energy to woo at girls. For the ladies, you properly lose your mood to pay more attention at the guy that you admire. Soon, you will lose the motivation of starting to get to know him/her more.
For those working, it is advise to take a bath on every morning before you go to work. You will look fresh and most of your “yin” qi will be washed away by the water element. Hence, you feel much more happier, neat and confidence with yourself when wooing at the opposite sex. You will attract more attention from the opposite sex. This also base on those people going out for a first date. You will have a higher chance of getting more chances to get more attention from a lady/man. So take that in mind, Bath yourself well.
Never place slippers in front of your bedroom door. Kick them aside. It blocks your way to your success in your relationship.
For the gentleman: It is advice not to paste any sex related material like sex related posters etc. in your bedroom. You will properly lose your “yang” energy if you face these materials too much. The more “yang” energy you have, the more you can attract opposite sex. For man, it is very important to have the “yang” qi with you.
In Feng Shui and Astrology, than stronger the man has his “yang” qi, and the stronger the lady has her “yin” energy, the “yin yang” gathers and balances the romance life.
In Feng Shui, colour is also an important aspect in romance related topics. For instance, green colour is always not advice to paint on the wall of your bedroom. You will never succeed to make a man/lady love you no matter how hard you tried. Or rather I say, you better give up on him/her. Paint your bedroom wall with light and bright colours. Light sky blue colours will create a peaceful and stable relationship. Light pink or violet colour will create a romantic and loving relationship. Pale off white colour will create a fresh and successful relationship. Never paint red colour in your room unless you are getting married. It ends your chances to find a suitable life-partner.
There are always things advised not to be place in a bedroom. However if you follow to my tips above, you properly will have a better relationship sooner. Feng Shui starts with the feeling. If you feel very comfortable to place something in your room, then it’s okay. If you got a feeling of uneasy, frustration, confused or worried, you properly got an objective. It’s always strongly advise to check out more with your local Feng Shui adviser.
Last, it is also worth to clean your wardrobe often. Throw away unwanted clothes, shoes or towels often. Clear at least 3 to 4 times a year. It somehow means that you will only have a brand new relationship only if you can throw away the old/bad or unsuccessful one. Don’t just leave everything in your wardrobe for thousand years and just don’t bother of clearing up your wardrobe. You properly end up tones of rubbish inside. You might as well choose to remain alone forever in your life. Your heart is filled with too much objectives that bothers you. That’s properly the reason why you always feel bothered or frustrated or even get jealous easily whenever you heard the news that another of your good buddies is getting married soon. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? CLEAN UP AND TIDY UP YOUR WARDROBE TODAY! FIGHT FOR YOUR OWN HAPPINESS NOW!
Feng Shui tips for your home:
There should be no shoes or slippers lying around outside the main door of your house. Remove it if you can. Allow that space at the main door to be free and clear. The chi (energy) rides with the wind and will collect all the smell of those shoes and slippers into your house causing sickness.
Ch’i then travels about in your house looking for water to stay but if there are no water fountains or fish tanks, then the Ch’i will be dispersed by wind.
There should be no television sets in your bedrooms: If you cannot get rid of that habit then after watching the television cover it with a plastic table cloth. Remember it has to be plastic and not simply cloth.
There should be no mirrors opposite your bed or at the side of your bed. Mirrors opposite the bed can attract a third party to the relationship. Therefore, do not place mirrors anywhere you like and especially in your bedroom.
Place an indoor water fountain in your home, position in a favourable area to attract whatever you want in your life.
If you already have a fish tank in your house, be careful. A fish tank placed correctly can bring about greater fortune, as you will tap on the “Divine Water Dragon’s Den”. But if you tap wrongly, it can cause you to have lawsuits, bankruptcy, work pressure, troubles and problems. If you noticed any of these after placing the fish tank for approximately four months, shift your fish tank to another location.
A fish tank or fountain in the Water (North) or Wood (East & South East) sectors of a property are superb good fortune enhancers. It is often advised that the aquarium is placed to the left side of the main door to attract money. The direction is taken when one is standing inside looking out.
Try not to allow children to sleep on mattresses on the floor. Yes, this allows young children not to fall off beds but it also causes young children to fall sick frequently. The reason is: chi is not able to flow underneath the bed. Ideally, chi should circulate around the mattress where our children sleep to allow them to be healthy.
For young children, try to have their back to the wall when they write. It is important there should be a solid wall behind a children’s writing table. This allows the child to have support so that he can sit there and study longer rather than for only half an hour and then they tend to move about because there is no solid wall behind their back. Adjust your writing table.
Do not allow children to sleep on double bunk beds even if it means saving space. The child sleeping underneath will not have “fresh chi” and so his health might be weak. But if due to space constraints, then monitor your child’s health if not add in a metal 6 rods wind chime or a crystal sphere, to break up the “stale chi” around his bed.
Your bed should always have a solid wall behind you. This is important if you wish to have a good rest. A solid wall simply means that you can go into deeper sleep and therefore enabling you to have good rest so that when you wake up in the morning, you will feel fresh and well rested. This also allows you to be able to concentrate on your work better.
There should be no beam on top of your bed. The beam above causes chi to be pressured thus enabling you to have pressures in life. Therefore, don’t place furniture underneath it or alternatively level the beam. But make sure if you choose the latter, it is important that you have enough height for that space.
If you have a lot of work pressure, maybe it’s the marble table that you have in your dinning room that causes you to have those problems. Remove that marble table and change to a wooden one or alternatively live with that work pressure!
If your child usually falls sick in that bedroom: Then either change them to another bedroom or simply hang a six rod metal wind chime as the metal element will break all the earth energies in that room. After hanging, if the wind could not do the job for you then you will have to “chime” it yourself and then watch for the good results.
Do not use a red sofa set: The colour red represent the element of fire. And for Feng Shui, some places simply cannot have the colour red in that sector. For example: the wealth area or some other sectors which without a Feng Shui check would be unable to tell you where it is. A red sofa sets gives rise to heavy work pressure, troubles and obstacles.
Always open your bedroom windows at least once 20 minutes a day to allow fresh chi to come in, we do this so that it allows fresh new chi from outside to come into your bedroom, if not you will be sleeping with stale chi every night.
And if that happens, then how can you expect your life to bring in more good fortune to come to you? So open that window and never mind if dusts comes in! The great good fortune that you can have will far exceeds the time you take to clean off the dust.
Two of Everything: Keep objects such as ornaments of animals in pairs, particularly if you wish to enhance relationship success.
Single items, especially photos of yourself on your own, could signify loneliness.
Position of Bed: When you are lying in bed, your feet should not directly face the door, since this is known as the ‘coffin’ position and is very inauspicious!
“Feng Shui” is not superstitious thing to believe. Up till today, many businessman, professionals and even billionaires still choose to believe it. I don’t think anyone likes to go against Feng Shui. If you feel believe in Feng Shui is superstitious, why not paint your living room’s wall in red colour or dark grey colour?
Why not hangs a clock opposite your main door? Why not move to a house locate next to a graveyard? I don’t think you dare to do that! And I think nobody wants to choose to go on bad luck forever. Right? Anyway, the above is just my good tips after studying Feng Shui for many years. Try it or Believe it? Up toYou.